In answer to 4101, Amy helped Shaun with his drug and alcohol problems, but maybe she wanted to move on and end their relationship even thou cmwys being a single may be a little too much. About Ben, he didn’t care about the money, he left the band because Amy and him were having a though relationship that wasn’t working anymore for them or Evanescence. John and Rocky were the ones who cared about the money and Rocky left Evanescence in the middle of a tour, just like that. And the credits of tod that belong to Terry were given to him. And I agree with you about the way she talks about pop music, she can be a little bitchy about that. Actually, the lyrics to tlsiwoy are “so pretty in your place” and everydoby’s fool is about today’s society and how we live in a world of appearances. About her saying that she is Evanescence, she is the only original member of the band, so I guess she has the right to say that. And their last album is called Evanescence because they worked on it togheter, the 5 bandmembers, and she said it in every interview, which proves she knows the guys are important. But we can’t forget that she’s a human, she has her flaws and sometimes she’s not a really good person, but at least she doesn’t pretend to be someone she’s not.